Helpful Tips on How to Use Alumnae Associations and Local Clubs for Networking

I read a lot about networking. A LOT. I'll admit that, as an introvert, the idea of networking makes me a little anxious. I know all the rules but honestly, the only way I get through any of those events is to not network. 

Yeah, you read that correctly. I don't network at networking events. 

Here's what I mean: I don't focus on what the person can do for me (bad) or even how I can help them (better). I focus on simply getting to know that person. Starting that conversation is much easier if you know you have something in common with them, like the same alma mater. Think about it. How many times have you seen someone wearing a baseball cap or shirt with your school and you got excited and maybe even introduced yourself? That's a form of networking!!!! So, use that same energy when connecting with other alums from your school(s).

As a Director on the Wellesley College Alumnae Association Board of Directors, I'll admit to being 1000% biased in favor of alum associations and local alum clubs. That's because I've seen and been the recipient of support and advice from fellow alums. Having a common background helps break the ice. Personally, I feel more invested in helping a fellow alum than I am with someone with whom I don't share a commonality. 

That being said, take full advantage of what your local alum associates and local alum clubs have to offer!

• Attend events. There are a lot of organizations offering virtual events nowadays so you might as well attend as many events as you can and "meet" new people along the way. 
• Volunteer to serve on a committee, host an event, or organize an activity. This is a great way to get to know people in a more informal setting. 
• Look up fellow alums who are in the field you're interested in and ask for an informational interview. They're much more likely to say yes to a fellow alum. On the flip side, when possible, accept requests from other alums who reach out to you.

Like with any networking opportunity, you expand your network by building genuine relationships. This isn't a one-way street nor should it be considered a short-term goal. Be sure to give as much support as you receive, if not more. When someone reaches out to you, respond. You'll not only expand your network but you’ll strengthen your alma mater community and maybe even make new friends. 

Tyche Tips

• Check your school’s Career Services department to see what, if any, services are available to alums. Many offer alums services like resume review.
• Check with your alum association’s alum directory for fellow alums in the field that you're interested in and who'd be willing to talk to you about it.
• Join alum-related Facebook groups to grow your network and connect with other alums. 
• Meeting people in person is almost always better than meeting online or over the phone so get out and attend your local club’s events!